Saturday, January 31, 2009

My January Ace

"How about this? What's this?" I asked..... "DDDDUUUCCKKKKKKKK!!!!!!!" ... Ace shouted again.... I told him not to shout because teacher can still hear him without shouting but he shouted at me again, this time, in Korean... I told him "English please. Hankuk-maal molayo"... and he disgustedly reacted with an ""Esshh!!!"...

My first class EVER, was a disaster. I only finished half of the chapter. Before the class, I carefully planned my lesson, on how each page should take, so I can finish the chapter even before the 50-minute class was over.. but I ended up spending most of the time going to Ace's seat, following him around, telling him to sit down.

He's a bright boy. He understands my instructions, in English, very well and shouts at his classmates who say "Eh?" and tells them what it was in Korean... and the students would say "Ah!"

Okay. My fellow teachers admitted they really found it hard to teach him. For the past months, he was taught alone in one classroom coz he would always box his classmates then. Another foreign teacher also admitted he gave up on Ace. It was a challenge for me. I always thought of things on how could I beat him. Meeting a fast approaching car was not the solution. In our next classes, I ended up letting him do whatever he wanted to do and still went on with the lessons for those who wanted to learn or not waste time. The girls were really attentive and would tell him to be silent if he gets rowdy again. Anne, my friend, advised me to still try to talk to Ace and get English answers from him even though he was doing something else, e.g. playing, and if I get the answer I wanted, then there's nothing wrong with the process. What's important was--he was listening after all and that he spoke in English.

After my second week, I was surprised when Ace would always come up to me and greet me and further on tell me he was doing fine--in English. On the first day of our third week, I was also impressed how he tried to do his bookwork "correctly" in advance. He was more subdued.

When 3rd week was over, I was told he'd be stopping his English classes this February. I really felt so sad. I've become really so proud of him, and the fact that he talks to me everytime he comes to school really surprised the other teachers...

On our last week, he was really more subdued. He worked well in class, he recited and read well and volunteered to give answers.

In a way, I felt triumphant that I still made a little difference on what the others gave up on. I felt more accomplished than gaining the approval of our director or winning the respect of the Korean teachers.

Though I'm still new to the academic world, I also hope to grow with my students. One thing I've lost and regained with Ace was my "patience"... and I thank him for that... I still have so much to learn...
Picture taken last Jan. 30, last class of the month with my beginner students. and that sweet kid with me? no other than Ace...







Sunday, January 18, 2009

My Ginseng Tea, Samgyetang and Ommonim...

I was greeted by a sweet and comforting aroma from the doorway when I came home from school 2 saturdays ago... I immediately put down my things in our room and went to the kitchen. Alex served me this--Ginseng tea: ginseng and chinese red dates (jujube) boiled together in a traditional pot...


And for dinner... I had this....Samgyetang: Chicken stew stuffed with glutinous rice, ginseng, chinese jujubes, chestnuts and garlic.


****Both made by my dearest Mom-in-law (I call her Ommonim)to boost my stamina....


After months of being on a vacation, hehe, suddenly working and spending long hours in school are really draining but Korean comfort foods cooked and served to you lovingly are enough to make you fight off feeling of sickness (and homesickness). Even until now, at times I feel uncomfortable or sick, I silently cry out for my Mom... I think most people do...

Being with my Mom-in-law is actually an advantage for Alex and me. And I thank her very much for taking care of us, instead of us taking care of her...

Picture taken from another part of Mt. Bukhan we climed together last Autumn '08...

Friday, January 9, 2009

A Night in Seoul...

After rounding Seoul for the whole Saturday, January 3, my second sister-in-law invited us to her house the following night in Yaksu-dong and treated us to a meaty dinner at "마 포 숯 불 같 비" [mapo such-pul kal-bi] (sorry for not always talking about food here, kkk.)

On our way to her apartment, we passed by this on the subway... I wonder if the man making and selling such chinese and korean inscriptions/writings has a translation of the Desiderata.. makapagpagawa sana, kkk...

A view of a part of Seoul from my sis-in-laws apartment:

At the restaurant. The walls were decorated with pictures of the famous who visited the place..

Displayed before our table was a frame including a picture of Joo Jin-Mo. My in-laws were actually surprised that I know him. They just laughed at me when I tried to take pictures of his picture, hehe... I told them I wanted to post it on my homepage. I first saw him in Queen of the Game and later on searched for Fashion 70's. My bulgogi.... akin lang, hehe...

After eating, we slowly walked the streets to ease our very full stomachs...

My second sis-in-law

With mom-in-law...



Wednesday, January 7, 2009

A Day in Seoul...

I started working for GnB last Monday, January 5. As for this month, I'll be handling 20 classes and additional 5 classes for 2 saturdays. My students include elementary and mid-school students. I was really elated when I was told I'll be teaching Writing Skills--it is more challenging. I really don't have an official teaching experience so I'm just too happy to handle a variety of students' English proficiency level.

Last week, Alex decided we travel around Seoul again or to a nearby countryside before my work finally starts. Since my mom-in-law worried I might get sick when we travel far, Alex and I just decided to climb Mt. Bukhan again and just go anywhere afterwards...

Here are some of our pictures:

First, we went to Mt. Bukhan for another climb. Eventhough there wasn't any snow, I was still happy with this picture...kkk The frozen water in some parts of the mountain were amazing to look at. From Mt. Bukhan, we took the subway to Dongdaemoon. Fronting me here was what seemed like a warehouse of cosmetics/beauty products. I got excited and asked for MaxFactor right away. But unfortunately, they only sell Korean products. After rounding the East Gateway, we headed to Cheonggyecheon.


We also walked the Pyeonghwa Sijang... (from ate Betchay's blog, this is the famous second hand book market where Hyun Bin searched for the book entitled Snow Queen in a drama with the same title. I've watched the drama by the way, that's why I also asked Alex we go here...kkk)

We also checked the shopping centers nearby. We had a hearty lunch such that I just contented myself with sweet corn that I munched on while we walked the streets...

Alex suddenly remembered a park near somewhere. We rode a downtown bus to get to it but when we were about to alight the bus, Alex just decided we go on a joyride around Seoul. I was impressed with Gangnam-dong. The buildings and business centers were really grand and looked to house the rich and famous, which Alex actually confirmed. I got a little bored though and so we decided to get down to a nearby station so we could go to the running course we saw from the bus.

Though Alex said he fancied the buildings behind him, he still prefers to relocate to a countryside when we get the opportunity... I also still prefer the countryside. I experienced catching fish, chasing birds, climbing up trees, going to fields, trekking mountains, and running and bathing under the rain which I would very much want my future children to experience too.



Friday, January 2, 2009

My Dr. Jang

After a couple of weeks here in Korea, I started having pimples which has become the family's affair, kkk...

I actually didn't have pimples for a long time until I came here. Alex' family has become so concerned that they give me creams and soaps to use. Though I'm grateful for their offer, I'm sticking with my ginseng soap because I believe also that I'm having pimples because my whole body and being is still adjusting to everything around me, including the food (I don't know how to cook really, and I just love Korean food so why bother to cook pinoy food parang ganon...).

Alex brought me to a dermatologist twice in less than a month. Thanks to him for registering my name under his medicine care insurance, we got 50% off for the doctors fee and the prescribed medicines. The immigration actually told Alex we could get my alien residence card (ARC) before my 90-day visa expires because he brought me there to apply for it just on my second week here. But he insisted he wanted me registered under his medicine care insurance the soonest he could.

On our first visit to Dr. Jang, I was surprised on how he thoroughly examined my face but just prescribed a cream which costed Alex KRW1600 (because of our discount). If divided by 28 for Philippine peso, that's only P57.14. [In the Philippines, I remember being convinced by a derma staff to go for the clinic's doctor's free consultation (I was a regular client), but I was so surprised when the dermatologist insisted I buy her prescribed creams and medicines before going out which costed me P3,000. ]

Though the cream dried up my existing pimples fast, Alex still insisted we go back for anti-inflammatory pills since some of my pimples has grown bigger than their normal size... Dr. Jang then prescribed pills for me and another bottle of the cream he first asked me to use.

I was surprised with how medicines here are packed and sold.

This is good for one intake. I was given 14 packets for my 7-day treatment. At first, I was so scared to take the medicines because I was thinking my body would have (adverse) reactions to them. That OA reaction too, I think, was normal for people like me who were to take medicines new to them. I mean, in the Philippines, you see an RX sign on the packet and at least, you can read and understand what's written on the medicine's packet. I also remembered Alex refusing to take "not Korean" medicine while he was in the Philippines. He actually brought with him his mini-first aid kit.

So far, the results are desirable. I'm thankful also that Dr. Jang is unlike any dermatologists I'd seen before. He is very honest with you and doesn't fuss over your face. He doesn't recommend treatments you don't need and he also still makes you feel comfortable with yourself.



The Christmas Gift...

I received these medicated toners and lotions from Alex as a Christmas gift.. As you can see, the bottles' contents show I've been consuming them for a week already..


Alex was a bit irritated though that I was more delighted with the freebies I got than with the gifts I received...


Originally, we were to buy the Acerola set, like what my mom-in-law is using, but we ended up buying these for my stubborn zits...

I was disappointed when the beauty shop didn't have the blemish balm (BB) cream of the brand. I've been using VOV's BB cream for over a year now and I wanted to try the brand's BB cream too. The saleslady gave Alex trial sachets of her shop's best selling BB cream and so far, I'm delighted with it... She also gave me a load of sachets of cleansing creams that I would gladly trade for more of the BB cream... kkk...

I really like going to shops/boutiques here, they serve you coffee or juice at a mere inquiry and give you free trial packs/sets of other products when you make a purchase...